Connor Bailey never wanted to be a fairy but in the third book I think he was glad to be a fairy.
His full name is Connor Jonathan Bailey. He is most likely the older twin. In the third book Bree Campbell (Connor's love interest) said that they would be on a plane for half a day and with a little research I found out that the twins lived in California where Chris Colfer lived.
Connor is probably a little braver than his sister but loves her none the less.
He has a not-so-secret admirer, Queen Trollbella. She forced him to kiss her in order to get out of the Troll and Goblin territory.